5 don'ts for choosing your wedding shoes

If you’re getting ready to choose your wedding shoes — whether you’ve been dreaming of Jimmy Choo Romys for the past decade or would be just as happy in a vintage op-shop find — there are a few common pitfalls you’ll want to avoid when it comes to picking your wedding shoes.

1. Forgetting to wear in your wedding shoes

New shoes straight out of the box might look pristine, but they’re rarely kind to your feet — especially after hours of walking, standing, and dancing. Breaking in your wedding shoes is non-negotiable, for both brides and grooms. Even the most luxurious pairs can rub or pinch in places you won’t notice until it’s far too late.

In the weeks leading up to your wedding, spend time wearing your shoes around the house — ideally on carpeted surfaces to keep the soles clean. Pay attention to any areas that feel tight or stiff, and give them time to soften and mould to your feet. A handful of short wears can make all the difference between gliding through your big day or hobbling by cocktail hour.

2. Shoes that don’t suit your venue

Your dream wedding shoes need to be as practical as they are beautiful — and that means thinking about where you’ll actually be walking. If you’re saying “I do” on the sand or in a garden, stilettos might not be your best friend. Soft lawns, beach paths, or uneven outdoor terrain can turn slender heels into a sinking nightmare.

Consider the setting before you commit. A block heel, wedge, or stylish flat can offer all the elegance without the struggle. Remember, it’s not just about appearances — it’s about feeling confident, comfortable, and grounded from the first step down the aisle to the last dance of the night.

3. Choosing height or style over walkability

There’s no sense in tottering down the aisle in shoes you can’t actually walk in. Your wedding day is about celebrating — not concentrating on every step and silently praying you don’t fall over. If you never wear heels, your wedding isn’t the day to start experimenting with skyscraper stilettos.

Comfort and confidence go hand in hand. Choose a shoe height — and a style — that feels natural for you. Whether that’s a sleek flat, a modest block heel, or a low, elegant pump, the goal is to move easily, dance freely, and stay present in every moment without worrying about your footing.

4. Forgetting backup shoes

If you’re planning to change into something more comfortable after the ceremony, don’t forget to actually pack them. It’s an easy detail to overlook in the rush of the day — but you’ll be grateful for a pair of flats, sandals, or even chic sneakers when it’s time to hit the dance floor.

Double-check that both shoes are packed (yes, both) and keep them somewhere easily accessible, like your emergency kit or bridal suite, so the swap is seamless when the time comes.

5. Forgetting heel savers, tape or bandaids

Blisters have a way of showing up at the worst possible moment — and not just for you, but for the entire bridal party. Having heel savers, blister tape, or bandaids on hand can be a small detail that saves the day. Pop a few into your emergency kit so you’re ready for anything, from rubbing shoes to unexpected wardrobe mishaps.