Kelly Rowland engaged… or is she?

Former Destiny’s Child songbird and X Factor judge Kelly Rowland is engaged or, perhaps, even married.

Nobody’s really sure, but what we do know is that the 32-year-old Grammy Award-winner is now sporting some serious bling and has a lover’s tattoo on her ring finger, the same one that has allegedly appeared on her manager and long-time love Tim Witherspoon’s ring finger.

Kelly debuted the large diamond ring at a recent Jay Z concert, sparking speculation that she’s either engaged or already married to her manager. She’s been spotted several times since sporting the same rather large rock on her ring finger.

We wouldn’t be surprised if she and Tim have already wed, after all, her bestie, Beyonce, managed to keep her own marriage to Jay Z hush hush for more than six months before anyone knew they’d married in April 2008.

“She has been showing [the ring] off to friends and family and is very happy,” one insider told Us. “She wants to…enjoy [it] and celebrate for a bit longer.”

If the rumours are true, the upcoming wedding will be Kelly’s first. She was previously engaged to US football player Roy Williams but they broke up in January 2005, just two months before their planned nuptials.

“I was too young for marriage,” the X Factor judge once told Cosmopolitan UK. “But sometimes you fall down and you learn from it.”

Wise words, indeed!

Good luck and much happiness to you both!