{"id":16591,"date":"2014-12-23T14:13:50","date_gmt":"2014-12-23T03:13:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/content.easyweddings.com\/uk\/articles\/so-youre-engaged-now-what\/"},"modified":"2021-11-11T15:20:21","modified_gmt":"2021-11-11T04:20:21","slug":"so-youre-engaged-now-what","status":"publish","type":"uk-article","link":"https:\/\/www.easyweddings.co.uk\/articles\/so-youre-engaged-now-what\/","title":{"rendered":"Help! I’m engaged but now what?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Congratulations on your engagement! Your journey up the aisle is an exciting one that, generally, comes along just once in a lifetime.<\/p>\n
However, once that ring is on their finger, some brides find it one of the most stressful periods in their lives \u2013 but it doesn\u2019t have to be.<\/p>\n
Planning your wedding day is a wonderful, wonderful thing to do. Yes, there\u2019s a lot to do, however, it\u2019s up to you just how simple or complex your big day is.<\/p>\n
So, now that you\u2019re engaged, where to start? At the beginning, of course.<\/p>\n
The first two steps are interchangeable because, once you announce your news to the world, the first question they\u2019re going to ask is, \u2018when\u2019s the big day?\u2019, so do what is best for the two of you.<\/p>\n
Your friends and family may want a say in the date (especially if babies are due or people are coming from overseas etc), so perform steps 1 or 2 in the order that you\u2019re most comfortable with.<\/p>\n
Also, keep in mind that there are plenty more steps, things like setting a date for an engagement party, choosing your bridal party and, perhaps even, insuring your engagement bling. For a complete list, see here, however, below are the key steps that must first be done.<\/p>\n
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Facebook and Twitter may seem like the best communication mediums through which to announce your engagement to the world, but they’re also highly impersonal \u2013 and once you\u2019ve done it, the entire world will know. It\u2019s only polite to let your friends and family know first, especially if your significant other has gone down the traditional route of asking for your hand in marriage.<\/p>\n
Take the time to trawl your contacts list and call close friends and family members before logging into your social media profiles, sending a mass email or making the traditional engagement announcement in the newspaper. After all, it is your close friends and family who will be most happy for you and your partner to be.<\/p>\n
As mentioned, after the hugs, kisses and, sometimes even, tears of joy, you\u2019ll be asked about a potential wedding date. It’s inevitable and, even if it changes down the track, you\u2019ll need a rough date in mind even to start your basic wedding planning and, of course, to invite people who may have to travel or make arrangements to be at your wedding (or in your bridal party, which is a huge commitment itself).<\/p>\n
So, by setting an in-principle date prior to making your big announcement will not only sate the curiosity of friends and family, it will also help you and your partner begin preparing emotionally and financially for the next milestone on your relationship journey.<\/p>\n
Regardless of where in the world you are, EasyWeddings.co.uk<\/a> is an award-winning online wedding destination that, if you\u2019re in the UK, we can put you in touch with more than 4000 wedding suppliers<\/a>, from wedding dress designers and cake decorators to some of the country\u2019s most talented wedding photographers and florists.<\/p>\n It\u2019s also free and, if you\u2019re from overseas, our free tools, which includes a HUGE pre-wedding checklist, will ensure you won\u2019t miss a single step in your journey up the aisle<\/a>.<\/p>\n You can sign up here<\/a> – and it takes less than a minute!<\/p>\n Aside from our fabulous forums<\/a>, which are chock full of brides and grooms-to-be who will help you in your journey up the aisle, we offer the latest wedding news, tips, tricks and trends and we\u2019ve even got a free iPad app<\/a> which contains all the tools so you can plan your wedding on the go.<\/p>\n