Anyone who has ever had to organise a hen party, knows that it’s not nearly as easy as it seems. Just the thought of getting the girls to agree on where to go, when to go and who to invite can be enough to put you off the whole idea, so here are a few hen party planning tips that will ensure you all have a great night out and still remain friends after:
Ideally you need to go somewhere that is easy for everyone to travel to, but is slightly different or special. Preferably it should be somewhere that you can feel relaxed and let your hair down, but that won’t be full of other hen parties. When you’re choosing where to go for the hen party, ask some of the hen’s close friends to get an idea of the budget. Travel expenses and accommodation will significantly increase the cost of the hen party, so you should only plan going away for a hen weekend if you all can afford it. Camping is always a good choice if you want a change of scenery but you’re on a limited budget.
Start with the hen when you’re deciding what to do and ask these questions:
You need to have an itinerary including where you are going to eat and drink and you need to make reservations well in advance. Don’t be fooled into thinking you can just book accommodation and plan out the rest when you get there. Making off the cuff decisions with a large group of ladies really isn’t a good idea, and if you don’t have a plan you risk your hen being let down. Make sure everyone is aware of the hen party schedule so you’re not losing people or continually waiting for them to catch up.
There are four main hen party rules:
Make sure you ask the hen who she wants to invite, unless of course you are throwing a surprise hen party in which case you could ask her fiancé. If possible ask the hen to separate the guests into various categories;
As the organiser it is up to you to ensure the party goes with a bang, so you need to be prepared with games and activities if things start to get a bit dull. Some games to have up your sleeve include: